Lying
Friend
In my school, soccer is a big fad. I play on a team. My friend
doesn’t play soccer at all, but she pretends that she plays
for a traveling team and that she is an expert at it. I want her
to stop, but I don’t want to hurt her feelings. What should
I do?
Reply
from the Highlights Editors
It’s hard to know what to think when you find out that a
friend is lying. Perhaps she made up this story because she is
insecure and wants people to like her.
Without
getting angry or accusing your friend, you might want to talk
to her alone and ask her if she is really on a team. As you talk,
you can explain that she doesn’t need to be on a team for
you to like her. Then listen patiently as she responds, and try
to be understanding. Perhaps you will be even better friends after
this conversation.
Your
friend may really be interested in joining a soccer team, so you
could help her by telling her how you got started. If she does
want to play, you could practice with her and show her what you
know.
Best
wishes,
The Highlights Editors
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